We Survived Third Month – asymmetric development, small talk and play time

PREŽIVELI SMO TRETJI MESEC – ekstenzijski vzorec, čenča in igra

PRI TREH MESECIH:

Nogavice si že sama sezujem
Grizalo držim z obema rokama
Nenehno se smejim
Spim 7-9 ur na noč, 11-12 ur v celoti
Redim se 1 kg na mesec
Z mamico se rada pogovarjam, še raje jo komandiram
Iz kravic se prekotalim na hrbet
Pridno obiskujem telovadbo

Zamujam. Vem! Nikdar nisem marala zamujanja, ampak od nosečnosti naprej pri vsaki stvari potrebujem dodatno uro, dan ali mesec. Z opravili nikakor ne pridem na zeleno vejo… Pa vendarle mi je uspelo spisati poročilo tretjega meseca.

Tehnica pri pediatru že kaže 6,3 kg, njene noge pa so zrastle za skoraj 5 cm v zadnjem mesecu. Mislim, da ni dvoma… tenisačica bo! Moj trmast karakter in Blaževi športni geni že kličejo po Wimbledonu.

Je pa ta mesec bil zame precej stresen. Ne samo, da je Blaž za 3 tedne odpotoval čez lužo – v Mehiko-, pri Izabeli so v Pedosani kot pri pediatru opazili ekstenzijski vzorec in naju napotili v razvojno ambulanto. Tako so nama priporočili, da vsak dan vsaj eno uro preživiva na tleh in izvajava vaje. Odkar se nasveta drživa, se je stanje že precej izboljšalo.

Ja, tudi takšni dnevi pridejo. Opažam, da je materinstvo en vrtiljak slabe krivde in nenehnega občutka, da sem slaba mama. Mogoče sem prestroga do sebe, ampak zmeraj imam občutek, da bi lahko naredila še kaj več. 

Še k sreči da njeni neprestani nasmehi in težke diskusije zmeraj poskrbijo, da za trenutek pozabim na vse očitke in težave. 

Pa še en quick update za vse mamice, ki z mano dihajo mesec po mesec. Lahko rečem, da so poporodne bolečine popolnoma izginile, za seboj pa žal pustile šibko telo. Čas je, da se vzamem v roke in postanem fit, da bom lahko malo štruco dohajala. Začnem v ponedeljek, ali kako že rečejo… Joj, res upam, da kmalu shodi… moj križ ji bo zelo hvaležen. Še zmeraj polno dojim, z izjemo kakšne naporne noči. Upam pa, da bo zaloga zdržala do začetka uvajanja z gosto hrano.

Se že veselim novega meseca in novih zmag.



WE SURVIVED THIRD MONTH – EXTENSION PATTERN, SMALL TALK AND PLAY TIME

AT THREE MONTHS:


I can take off my socks
I hold the grizzle with both hands
I laugh most of the day
I sleep 7-9 hours, overall 11-12 hours
I’m gaining 1 kg per month
I like to talk to my mommy, but prefer to boss her around

I am late! I know. I never liked being late, but since my pregnancy I always feel like I need an extra hour, day or a whole month. I just can’t get it together to be organized as before. Nevertheless, I finally managed to write a report for the third month with Izabela.

The pediatrician scale already shows 6.3 kg and her legs have grown nearly 5 cm in one month. It is safe to say she is going to be a tennis player. With my stubborn character and her dad’s athletic genes… Wimbledon here we come!

But this month was pretty stressful for me. Not only Blaž went to Mexico for 3 weeks, pediatrician noticed asymmetric tonic neck reflex and send us to physiotherapy. They recommended us to spend at least an hour per day on the floor to exercise.

Yes! I’ve seen better days. I’ve noticed that motherhood is a big carousel of guild an a constant feeling of being a bad mom. Maybe I am too hard on myself, but I always feel I could do better.

But not everything is so black & white. Her constant smiles and our deep conversations make me forget about all the troubles. Now that she shows me every day something new, I really feel that we are bounding. She knows who I am and she doesn’t let me out of her sight. Such a fulfilling feeling.

And now a quick update for all the moms who are sticking with me from month to month. My postpartum pains are over, but the damage was made. I feel unfit and weak and my back pain from all the lifting is terrible. Now that she is big enough I decided to start getting fit again. I’ll start on Monday or how they say..

With love,

Vanesa S.

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